but also -in some ways – gave up some of my identity. I thought I was the type of person to take transit, not be driven around in my chauffered car! Did not think I was the domestic household chores type, did not think I’d carry an umbrella to stay out of the sun – but a year in India changed all of that. My books were part of my identity. So much more.

but got to live for a year in India and now a year in Australia and have a life with no work and no kids and lots of time for art and reading. but own almost nothing and could walk away from everything. most valued posession: my passport.

Out of everthing in your list, the hardest for me to give up would be a home of our own. I love the comfort and personality of our home, and it would be hard to give up. I’ve already given up the fancy cars, and instead opted for used cars that I can afford to buy with cash. As for fancy clothes, I prefer an old pair of jeans and a t-shirt.

I love shopping in op shops – the lovely warm jumper I have on at the moment cost me $4.00 last winter. I would buy all of our stuff in op shops, but the menfolk are committed consumers. What can I do? Shrug and stick to my personal frugality.

Mostly I couldn’t do without the computer. And my rice cooker. I put everything in there, all together, especially with tons of exotic spices and sauces from the oriental supermart. Most of which doesn’t even have English labels.